This article is intended to protect dogs who may fall victim to becoming an “impulse buy, or even “impulse adopted,” although this could apply to any animal
Every year, especially during Christmas time, dogs are purchased or adopted as gifts by well-meaning folks who are clueless that a dog is a lifetime commitment, and that a lot of time, work and dediction are involved in raising—yes, “raising”—the dog so that he or she can successfully integrate into the family.
Dumbfounded upon this realization, the “impulse buy” becomes a burden, unwanted, a mistake. It is the dog who suffers as a result of human ignorance.
If you want a teddy bear, go to the toy store. They are much cheaper. ~John Sav, Intagram
A life-long dog-lover, John Sav has dedicated his life to educating people about improving the human-dog relationship. Sav wrote a wonderful piece about impulse buys with a focus on Marley, a badly-matted designer dog who was dumped at the shelter by his owner. The article is reprinted here with Sav’s permission.
“He was treated like a stuffed toy by a young child who wasn’t supervised with him.”
This is my foster dog Marley. He’s cute as hell. His cuteness has been both his curse and his blessing in life. Marley bites. Bad. Marley was a cute puppy. He was treated like a stuffed toy by a young child who wasn’t supervised with him. When Marley got big enough he started to defend himself from this unintended abuse the only way a dog knows how. With his teeth.
At ten months old Marley was surrendered, covered in mats because the family who bought him didn’t understand the needs of a hypoallergenic dog. By this time the damage was done. Imagine not washing your hair for months the whole time someone was dragging you around like you were a teddy bear.
So what do you do with a dog that’s snappy and won’t let you get close to it? You lock it in a cage. You let your frustrations get to you and you shove him into the cage because he’s biting you while your trying to get him in there. So now he obviously has issues with the cage.
Marley was sent to a training facility that deals with aggressive dogs. I have worked with some very aggressive dogs. Marley is not an aggressive dog. Marley has no trust in people because all they have ever done is wrong him. Marley is terrified to be touched the wrong way because all his life he has been shown that touch only leads to pain and hurt.
“I can see the pain and suffering this dog has been through.”
They said he had no respect and that he was unfixable and unadoptable. When I first heard his story I laughed, I thought he was a poodle with an attitude. Now that I have known him a while I know better. I can see the pain and the suffering this dog has been through. The animals don’t have a voice but if you know what your looking at they will tell you their story. Marley now has a voice, mine, and I am telling his story.
Marley is going to be with me quite a while so he can learn to trust people again, working at his own pace towards his recovery. Marley is well trained. He can sit, stay, come, lay down, roll over, Fetch (exceptionally good at Fetch), and high five. He is house trained. He follows the rules of the house. He walks well on a leash. Marley does not need training. Marley needs to recover.
“[Marley” was a gift to a small child … [but] was made into a monster.”
I’m writing this with Marley at my feet. A dog that was a gift to a small child. A dog that was supposed to be therapeutic. A dog that was made into a monster. So this holiday season please remember; a dog is NOT a gift. A dog is NOT the responsibility of children. A dog (any dog) is NOT to be left unattended with children. A puppy/new dog is NOT a therapy dog. A therapy dog is a therapy dog. It takes years of expensive training to turn a dog into a therapy dog. You don’t buy them from some donkey selling designer puppies out of their backyard. A dog is NOT an impulse. If you want a non shedding dog be prepared to take care of that hair. If you want a German Shepard be prepared for all the training required. If you want a Dalmatian be prepared to deal with a stubborn pain in the ass.
“If Marley looked like a Pit bull he would have been put down a long time ago.”
At the beginning of this I said his cuteness was his curse and blessing in life. The curse is obvious after reading this. The blessing? If Marley looked like a Pit bull he would have been put down a long time ago.
Update: I adopted this dog in March. He is now an obedience master working towards his intermediate agility, and he helps me train other broken dogs. You can follow him in his new life on Instagram @john.is.for.the.dogs
Follow John Sav on facebook, Instagram and visit his website, John is for the dogs. All three provide invaluable resources and materials to help educate the public and even those with years of experience in rescuing, adopting, and fostering. Followers can also keep up with his latest rescue dogs and the progress he makes with each of his dogs, including Marley.
Excellent article. Will share.
Educate, educate, educate.
THIS IS SO TRUE. SOMETHING SO EASY TO UNDERSTAND. A DOG IS NOT A GIFT, A TOY, A STUFFED ANIMAL THAT YOU CAN PULL HIS TAIL AND EARS AND RIDE HIM LIME A HORSE.HOWEVER, IGNORANCE CAME FROM THE PARENTS AND THAT IS WHY KIDS TODAY, HAVE NO RESPECT FOR LIFE. SOME OF THEM GROW UP TO BE MONSTERS, BECAUSE THATS WHAT THE PARENTS TAUGHT THEM. NO VALUE, NO RESPECT, NO LOVE FOR HUMANS AND THE NON-HUMAN LIVING BEINGS. THAT’S WHY NOW YOU HAVE TO RE-TRAIN THIS POOR SOUL THAT NOT ALL HUMANS ARE THERE TO HURT HIM AND WORK AS WELL WITH HIS TRUST TOWARDS PEOPLE. ITS VERY SAD 😢 THE INNOCENT, VOICELESS, IS ALWAYS THE ONE THAT HAS TO PAY THE PRICE FOR THE IGNORANCE OF HUMANITY.